Realistic dildos have come a long way since I started working in the sex toy industry over a decade ago.
The first dual-density dildos saw the light of day around that time and things have only improved since then. We’re now pushing the limit of what’s realistic with the new triple-layer RealCock dildos.
But layers of softness are not all that matters – Realism is a complex thing that’s hard to put a number on. I’ve tried to judge the different dildos as subjective as possible but these are my opinions based on my preferences.
I have consulted Sahra (my fellow dildo reviewer here at Kinkycow) about a few of the dildos that I needed a second opinion on.
These are most favorite realistic dildos:
This is what I judge the dildos on:
No dildo list would be complete without a dildo from Mr. Hankey’s Toys and their Perfect Penis takes the first spot on this list.
It was released in 2023 and uses all their latest molding techniques and new silicone blends. You can select between a “Small” to XXL version, 4 different firmnesses, and 25 colors.
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I get excited every time I get a new sex toy, I get even more excited when I know it’s from Mr. Hankey’s Toys.
The Perfect Penis has been designed based on what most women like in terms of penis shape and size. And guess what?
I freaking love it!
It hits all the right spots with its slight upward curve and the girth is filling without being too much. I should properly clarify that I’ve been testing the “Small” version, which is not small when compared to regular dildos, but small when compared to other Mr. Hankey’s dildos.
The small version has an insertable length of 6.5 inches (16.5cm) while the XXL version has a 10.5 inch (26.6cm) insertable length.
Pro tip: Your eyes think you can take more than your holes. Please choose a size that you know you can handle.
I recommend The Perfect Penis if you’re after the best all-round realistic dildo right now in 2024.
The button below leads to Mr. Hankey’s Toys website. Just click Shop – Realistic Dildos and find it.
Colours is behind this “little” gem of a dildo which has a firm core and a soft outer layer that makes it feel realistic when you use it.
You can select between Vanilla and Chocolate colo(u)rs and it has an insertable length of 5.25 inches (13.3 cm).
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It’s not the most realistic-looking dildo that I’ve ever tested – not even close. But it does make up for it in the way it feels to use.
Sure, other dildos feel similar in terms of realism but nothing comes close when you factor in the low price, quality materials, and the dual density design.
You’re simply not going to get anything close to the Colours Dual Density dildo for less than $50.
If you’re on a budget then this is the perfect realistic dildo for you.
I recommend the Colours Dual Density dildo if you’re on a budget but want quality and realism.
The RealCock 2 is a whole lineup of different ultra-realistic-looking dildos. All their dildos are handmade which does add production time and a whole lot of cost.
Their smallest dildo is called Jones and has a length of 6.5 inches (16.5cm) while their massive Bruce is 10 inches (25 cm) long and has a massive girth. There should be something for you no matter what style or size you’re after.
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The RealCock 2 is by far the most realistic-looking and feeling dildo I’ve ever seen and tested. So why isn’t it number 1 on this list? The RealCock 2 has one massive drawback and that is the price that goes from $599 to $799 $949 (2024 pricing) for a single dildo.
It’s not the only problem it has: it’s awkward to use solo due to the huge base, it’s really heavy which makes it sack or hang when mounted in a strap-on harness, and there are a few instances where the liquid from the ball sack leaks out.
I know that sounds pretty bad but it’s just not what you expect when you spend almost a grand on a freaking dildo.
But, it’s not all bad and there is a reason why it’s my top choice for the most realistic dildo in 2024. You’re simply not getting anything that even remotely compares in terms of realism, both when you touch and look at it.
It’s unbelievably satisfying to feel the veins on the shaft and it’s hard not to use the balls as a fidget toy when it stands on my desk next to my PC.
I recommend the RealCock 2 if you have the money and simply want the best most realistic dildo in the world.
The Johnny Sins dildo is molded after his cock so you’ll get to experience how it feels to get fucked by him.
It’s cast with platinum-cured silicone which is the best material to use in realistic dildos since it feels like real skin.
Its length including the balls is 8.12 inches of which 6.6 inches is insertable and the circumference is 6 inches which makes it a good size for most users.
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This is just an overall great realistic-looking dildo that fits most women and men. It’s made with the best quality materials and it has a lot of details you can enjoy when you use it.
It’s a little annoying that it doesn’t come with a suction cup base for mounting on a wall or a strap-on harness. You can buy it as an accessory but then it starts to get a little expensive.
The base is large enough to make it stand on a floor without any trouble and the balls-base makes an excellent handle for solo use.
I recommend the Johnny Sins dildo if you’re after a pornstar replica dildo.
The D-Perfect realistic vibrating dildo is made in the USA by Doc Johnson. It’s made of their Ultraskyn material which is a mix between TPE and PVC which makes it feel like touching real skin.
It has been molded after a real penis and it has veins down the shaft and a set of real-looking balls.
The outside layer feels super soft and the inside is firmer so you’ll get the best of both materials.
You can twist the suction cup base off and access the vibrator inside. You’ll need to get 2x AA batteries which is not included.
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This is a great realistic-looking dildo with a vibrator in the shaft and all the features you would want from a dildo. The dual density with different materials is a great touch and one that I wish more would make.
The vibrator is good, but my only complaint is the lag of rechargeable batteries which would have been sweet.
I recommend the D-Perfect Ultraskyn vibrating dildo if you’re looking for a realistic dildo with a vibrator in it.
The Max Konnor dildo is made by Fleshlight and they have used the best quality platinum-cured silicone for this beauty.
It has been molded after his award-winning cock and you get to enjoy all the small details of this massive 8-inch beast.
It does not come with a suction cup base, but there is a small silicone plug that you can remove from the base and insert a suction cup that you can buy separately.
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The Max Konnor dildo is such a great and very detailed product that would fit well in any sex toy collection.
I recommend the Max Konnor replica dildo if you’re after a big fat black dildo.
The Jake Bass dildo is a molded version of his cock which has all the same details on both the cock and balls.
It’s one of the smallest dildos on the list with 6-inches in length and 5-inches circumference at the base of it.
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It’s a great option if you’re new to dildos or you’re simply not that big inside.
Its curvature makes it a really good G-spot/P-spot massager.
I recommend the Jake Bass dildo for all beginners and G/P-spot massagers if you’re into that.
You’re getting a huge realistic black dildo with the Milan Christopher dildo which is a true-size replica of his cock.
It’s made from the best quality Platinum cured silicone which gives it a nice skin-like feel.
You can enjoy 7.25-inches of this massive 9-inch dildo and that should be plenty for most.
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The Milan Christopher dildo is such a classic big cock dildo and the small details make it feel and look super realistic.
It’s made by Fleshlight which is known for its high-quality pocket pussies, they have used that knowledge to create an awesome line of dildos.
I recommend the Milan Christopher realistic black dildo to you if you’re after a big black realistic-looking dildo.
The John Holmes dildo is made after the legendary pornstar John Holmes cock and there are a lot of great details. The entire dildo is 12 inches long and has a massive 2.5 diameter which is very thick!
Doc Johnson is behind this massive beast and they have included their suction cup base, but it’s not going to sit on any walls since it’s simply too heavy to hold. You can however use it on a smooth floor and sit on it (if you dare!).
Make sure you warm up before you start using it and use plenty of water-based lubrication.
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Yep, the one and only John Holmes has gotten himself a 12-inch monster dildo made so you can enjoy his massive cock.
This is only for the few sex toy extremists out there and it certainly requires a lot of training to be able to handle this huge realistic dildo.
One thing to keep in mind is the thickness which surprised even me when I got it in my hands the first time! The width is 2.5 inches (6.3 cm) which is equal to a circumference of close to 8 freaking inches (20cm). It’s not quite as thick as the “Bruce” dildo from RealCock2 but it’s surprisingly close.
I recommend the John Holmes dildo if you’re after the biggest realistic dildo out there.
A: Go for a small and thin dildo if you’re new to dildos. I would personally pick the Jake Bass dildo which is “only” 6-inches long and “only” 5-inches around the base of the shaft.
A: The number 1 spot is Johnny Sins dildo since it has a nice curvature that makes it super easy to massage your G-spot. It’s also a quite large dildo which does the trick for most users.
A: The best and most durable material is Platinum cured silicone which holds it shape really well which preserves all the details of a real cock when it’s used in a mold.
A: Only use water-based lubrication with your sex toys – unless they are made of glass or metal.
A: Yep, just go for it, but make sure you warmup and use plenty of water-based lubrication.
A big realistic dildo is very high on the popularity list of dildos and I can only agree that the feel and looks of a well-made realistic dildo are truly amazing.
There are so many great options that look fantastic so it’s just about picking one that fits your need and your budget.
I would love to recommend the RealCock 2 to you as it’s hyper realistic but the price tag is simply too high for my recommendation.
If you have the money to spend $599 on a realistic dildo then sure go ahead and get it, but some of the other options are good for a fraction of the price.
I recommend The Perfect Penis for you if you’re after a realistic dildo with a good price tag.
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