Strap-on dildos are a fun way to spice things up in the bedroom and beyond. It doesn’t matter what type of sexual relationship you’re in, strap-ons can be part of all of them.
I’m writing this guide in collaboration with my fellow Kinkycow sex toy reviewer Brooke. We have over 2 decades of experience working with sex toys and the list below is a list of all the best strap-on harnesses and dildos that we’ve ever tried.
We judge the strap-on harnesses and dildos on the:
All the products on this list are awesome in their way, it’s just a matter of finding the perfect one for you.
The Joque strap-on harness from SpareParts has a large supporting back strap with soft padding on the inside for a comfortable wearing experience.
It has 4 strap tightness adjustment points to make it fit your body shape perfectly and the stretchable O-ring can hold suction-cup dildos with a diameter between 1-2 inches.
You can get the harness in a black, purple, or red color.
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The Joque strap-on harness from SpareParts sets a high standard with its high build quality and material choices.
It takes a little time to adjust everything correctly, but that’s well worth the wait.
Compared to almost all other harnesses, it’s so comfortable to wear that you can go on for hours without thinking about it.
The large backstrap is great at supporting even large dildos and I had no trouble handling a 9” dildo in it.
Just be mindful of the size as it only goes up to 50 inches in waist circumference.
I recommend the Joque strap-on harness if you’re after a high-quality comfortable strap-on harness.
This is Lovehoney’s budget option when it comes to strap-on harnesses and it has a large back-strap that supports the weight of even large dildos.
You can adjust the tightness with 4 strap-tighteners on the sides of your waist.
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There is no doubt that this is a budget strap-on harness option and you don’t get the best quality in the world but the features and comfort level earn it a top spot as the best budget option.
I personally love that they’ve included the large back support which is crucial for comfortable use especially if you plan on using a larger-than-average dildo.
I found the strap material a little annoying after a while but nothing major and certainly not a deal breaker.
I recommend the Lovehoney Full-Back Strap-On Harness if you’re after a budget harness.
The Aslan leather harness has a large corset-style back support with lacing and an interchangeable O-ring at the front. The entire harness is made of leather and stainless steel of high-quality.
There is a second small strap-on intended for a butt plug or an anal dildo to be enjoyed by the wearer.
You can select between 2 sizes; a small which fits a hip size between 26-44 inches (66-112cm) and a large which fits 36-56 inches (91-142cm).
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This is the definition of high-quality when it comes to leather harnesses and you’re not going to find anything that matches it unless you get some custom $500 harness done for you.
I love the corset lacing back support which looks freaking amazing and it helps to support whatever dildo you’ve mounted in the O-ring. You can also get a less expensive version with classic back support but I found it hard to recommend when I tried the corset style one.
I recommend the Aslan Leather Strap-On Harness if you’re after the best leather strap-on harness.
The All-American Whopper is a well-known dildo brand that makes good and affordable realistic-looking dildos.
It comes with a standard p-ring harness with 2 rings that work with all standard suction cup dildos.
The dildo is 6.5-inches long and curves quite a lot upwards which makes it very useful when massaging that G-spot. The shaft is covered in veins and the head is large and pink.
The O-ring is secured with 4 snap buttons that hold the dong tight and secure.
You can adjust the harness up to a 44” waist.
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This is a great realistic strap-on dong at a very affordable price. You can always upgrade the dildo if you want more features or use one that you already own and love.
My only complaint is the use of PVC in the dildo, I would have preferred silicone, but that would have made this product twice as expensive.
I recommend the All-American strap-on to you if you’re after a good cheap realistic strap-on dildo.
The Zoro DP is not like most strap-ons that I’ve seen in my time working with sex toys. The unique mounting mechanism makes it very comfortable to use and you have much better control when you start thrusting.
Its unique mounting also allows you to adjust the angle of the dildo a little, which makes it feel way better to use.
The dildo itself is 6.5 inches long and made of silicone and can be used by both men and women for girl-on-girl, pegging, or double penetration.
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This is super comfortable to use with no pointy spots that dig into your skin. You can use it in a wide range of ways due to the hole under the dildo which fits a penis perfectly for double penetration.
One of the few problems with this product is that you can’t change the dildo since it’s a proprietary mount so you’re stuck with it.
I recommend the Zoro DP if you’re after a comfortable strap-on dildo that works for both men and women.
The New Comers set has all you need to get started with a strap-on and it’s especially good for pegging beginners.
The dildo is only 4 inches long, 0.75 inches thick and the surface is very smooth which makes it very easy to insert in a virgin butthole.
The harness can be adjusted quite a lot and fits up to 60-inch hips and you can clean it in a washing machine once you’re done.
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This is a great set for pegging newbies who want to get their feet wet without investing a fortune only to find out that it’s not for them.
The silicone dildo is very small and a good beginner size, the harness can take bigger dildos if you’re feeling adventurous after your first try.
I recommend the New Comers set if you’re after a good beginner set with a small dildo.
Sportsheets is behind this corset-style harness called Chantilly that comes with 3 O-rings so you can find the perfect size O-ring for your dildos.
The harness can be adjusted up to fit a 60-inch (152cm) hip size by losing the straps on the side.
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I love this little cute corset-style strap-on harness from Sportsheets and it’s my favorite corset style if you’re on a budget or simply don’t want one made of leather.
It’s pretty comfortable to use and I had no problem wearing it for 45 minutes.
I recommend the Chantilly from Sportsheets if you’re after a super cute strap-on harness for a cheap price.
The Dual Penetration strap-on kit comes with two silicone dildos with slightly different shapes and textures. You can swap them around or change them to dildos that you already have if you want to spice things up.
One dildo is 6 inches long and curves upwards for G-spot massage, while the other is 6.75 inches long and has a series of bumps on the top.
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This is a fun way to give your sex partner a double penetration experience. I love that you can mix and match with different dildos and make your own unique setup.
Both the dildos are fairly thin which makes it good for beginners and you can upgrade to a thicker dildo once you feel comfortable with it.
I recommend the Dual Penetration Kit if you want a double dildo strap-on to pleasure your partner.
The 8-inch version of the All-American strap-on dildo has a 3-speed vibrator that you can control via a wired controller. I would have loved it to be a wireless controller, but that would properly have doubled the price.
The vibrator is a great way to take it easy in the beginning and then build up speed and vibration during sex.
This is built for lesbians but can work for pegging if your partner loves it big, just remember to use plenty of water-based lubrication.
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This is one massive strap-on dong with a vibrator included for that extra power. I ability to control the speed of the vibrator while you’re having sex is good, but the wires are a bit annoying and it should have been rechargeable.
The All-American 8-inch beast of a strap-on is other than that a great product if you’re into big stuff.
I recommend the All-American 8-inch big strap-on dildo if you want to expand your sex partner in all the right places.
This little Ruffled harness is made by Pink B.O.B. and can be yours for the small price of just $43. It comes with 4 O-rings in different sizes so it shouldn’t be a problem finding one that fits your dildos.
The strap-on part of the harness has some ruffles around the edge for a little more feminine look.
It’s adjustable up to a 60-inch (152cm) waist.
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I’ve put this in the last spot on my list of the best strap-on harness but that does not mean it’s bad. There are simply just other better products out there, but I’ve still included them because you’re getting quite a lot for your money.
The ruffles did start to itch on my skin after a while and it’s not as comfortable as some of the more expensive models, so not recommended if you’re planning on going past the half-hour mark.
It is however recommended if you want a good beginner strap-on harness that fits most suction-cup dildos.
The King Cock is a hollow 11-inch strap-on dildo with extra shoulder straps to hold its massive size in place.
Simply put on the harness loosely and put your cock inside the hole in the dildo and tighten the harness so it sits firmly against your body.
There is a Velcro strap around the base of the dildo that pulls it upwards, this is needed because of its size and weight.
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This is not for everybody and it will take some time to be able to take this 11-inch beast (and a whole lot of lubrication).
Take a look at the picture above and see how big it is compared to a standard can of soda, make sure your partner sees the image before you buy it. It’s massive and feels way bigger when you have the dildo in your hands.
I recommend the King Cock 10-inch hollow strap-on dildo if your partner wants to be filled to the max.
A: It’s very straight forward to a strap on dildo, but it all depends on the product type. But for the most part just:
A: No, you have to make sure that the dildo you want to use isn’t too thick and it has the standard harness/suction cup mount. The girth of the dildo should be smaller than the diameter of the o-ring on your harness.
A: A hanging dildo can be a sign of two different problems. 1) the harness isn’t adjusted correct, try to tighten it more. 2) The dildo you use might be too heavy for the harness you have. You can get harnesses with extra support for large dildos, the King Cock 10 inch on the list above is a great example of that.
A: No, not that there is anything wrong with being gay, but being pegged can be enjoyed by anyone. In fact, most men have that fantasy but very few men talk about it, which is a shame.
A: Yep, that’s not a problem, just make sure you get one that has room for your penis just like the Zoro strap-on on the list. You can also get a double penetration cock ring that works in a similar way, but it just sits around you cock instead of in a harness.
A: This can also be a good option, but it’s certainly not for everyone. I’ve written an article about strapless strap ons if you want to learn more about them.
A: Suction-cup dildos with a standard size cup works with most strap-on harnesses. But it also depends on the girth of the dildo and the O-ring size you have. Make sure that diameter of the O-ring is a tiny bit bigger than the diameter of the shaft of your suction-cup dildo.
A: You can make a DIY robe strap-on harness but that’s something I’ve never done before, but it might be an interesting project and article for the future.
A strap-on dildo can spice things up during sex and it can be healthy to change roles from giver to receiver sometimes.
It’s also one of the best sex toys for women and a favorite among lesbians for a lot of obvious reasons.
If you’re new to sex toys then go for one of the beginner kits that offer a lot for a small price. Play around with it and give it a good try, I’m pretty sure you’re going to love it and come back for more.
Sex toys are a bit of a rabbit hole (a fun rabbit hole), the more toys you have the more you want.
I recommend the All American Whopper 6.5-inch strap-on dildo for you if you’re looking for a great all-round product at a good price.
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