Comprehensive strap on dildo guide 2021

Strap on dildos can be used is a lot of ways and can be a fun way to spice things up in the bedroom.

Follow our guide and find the best strap on dildo for your fantasies and explorer the wonderful world of sex toys.

The product listed below has been judged based on 10 years of experience with sex toys and the following points:

  • Build-quality
  • Features
  • Price

All the products on this list are awesome in their own way, it’s just a matter of finding the perfect one for you.

Highest rated strap on dildos 2021

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#1 All American Whopper 6.5 with harness – Best realistic strap on dildo

The All American Whopper is a well-known dildo brand that make good and affordable realistic looking dildos.

It comes with a standard p-ring harness with 2 rings that works with all standard suction cup dildos.

The dildo is 6.5-inches long and curves quite a lot upwards which makes it very useful when massaging that G-spot. The shaft is covered in veins and the head is large and pink.

The o-ring is secured with 4 snap buttons that holds the dong tight and secure.

You can adjust the harness all the way up to a 44” waist.

All American Whopper 6.5 strap on

Pros:

  • Decent quality
  • Very cheap
  • Looks very realistic for the price
  • You can change the dong
  • Good secure mount

Cons:

  • The dildo is made of PVC
  • Not super comfortable to use

All American Whopper with harness conclusion

This is a great realistic strap on dong at a very affordable price. You can always upgrade the dildo if you want more features or use one that you already own and love.

My only complaint is the use of PVC in the dildo, I would have preferred silicone, but that would have made this product twice as expensive.

I recommend the All American strap on to you if you’re after a good cheap realistic strap on dildo.

#2 Zoro DP Silicone – Most comfortable to use

The Zoro DP is not like most strap ons that I’ve seen in my time working with sex toys. The unique mounting mechanism makes it very comfortable to use and you have much better control when you start thrusting.

It’s unique mounting also allows you to adjust the angle of the dildo a little, which makes it feel way better to use.

The dildo itself is 6.5-inches long and made of silicone and can be used by both men and women for girl-on-girl, pegging, or double penetration.

Zoro DP Silicone Strap On dildo

Pros:

  • High-quality silicone
  • Very easy to use
  • Super comfortable to use
  • Can be used by men for DP
  • Fit’s waist sizes from 30” to 52”
  • Adjust dildo angle on mount

Cons:

  • You can’t change the dildo
  • No vibrator

Zoro DP Silicone conclusion

This is super comfortable to use with no pointy spots that dig into your skin. You can use it in a wide range of ways due to the hole under the dildo which fits a penis perfectly for double penetration.

One of the few problems with this product is that you can’t change the dildo since it’s a proprietary mount so you’re stuck with it.

I recommend the Zoro DP if you’re after a comfortable strap on dildo that works for both men and women.

#3 New Comers strap on set – Small beginner strap on dildo

The New Comers set has all you need to get started with a strap on and it’s especially good for pegging beginners.

The dildo is only 4-inches long, 0.75-inches thick and the surface is very smooth which makes it very easy to insert in a virgin butthole.

The harness can be adjusted quite a lot and fits all the way up to 60-inch hips and you can clean it in a washing machine once you’re done.

New Comers Strap On set

Pros:

  • Good quality for the price
  • Small and smooth dildo
  • Perfect for pegging beginners
  • Made of silicone
  • Harness fits up to 60-inch hips
  • Mount up to 1.25-inch-thick dildos

Cons:

  • A second slightly bigger dildo would be nice

New Comers strap on set conclusion

This is a great set for pegging newbies who want to get their feet wet without investing a fortune only to find out that it’s not for them.

The silicone dildo is very small and a good beginner size, the harness can take bigger dildos if you’re feeling adventurous after your first try.

I recommend the New Comers set if you’re after a good beginner set with a small dildo.

#4 All American 8-inch – Huge strap on dildo

The 8-inch version of the All American strap on dildo has a 3-speed vibrator that you can control via a wired controller. I would have loved it to be a wireless controller, but that would properly have doubled the price.

The vibrator is a great way to take it easy in the beginning and then build up speed and vibration during sex.

This is built for lesbians but can work for pegging if your partner loves it big, just remember to use plenty of water-based lubrication.

All American Whopper 8-Inch Vibrating Dong With Harness

Pros:

  • 8-inch big realistic dildo
  • Vibrating dildo
  • Fit almost all other dongs

Cons:

  • PVC dong
  • Wired controls for the vibrator
  • Not rechargeable

All American 8-inch big strap on conclusion

This is one massive strap on dong with a vibrator included for that extra power. I ability to control the speed of the vibrator while you’re having sex is good, but the wires are a bit annoying and it should have been rechargeable.

The All American 8-inch beast of a strap on is other then that a great product if you’re into big stuff.

I recommend the All American 8-inch big strap on dildo if you want to expand you sex partner in all the right places.

#5 Dual Penetration kit – Double dildo strap on

The Dual Penetration strap on kit comes with two silicone dildos with slightly different shape and textures. You can swap them around or change them to dildos that you already have if you want to spice things up.

One dildo is 6-inch long and curves upwards for G-spot massage, while the other is 6.75-inch long and has a series of bumps on the top.

Dual Penetration Harness Kit

Pros:

  • High-quality
  • Silicone dildos
  • You can change dildos
  • Fully adjustable harness up to 60-inch hips

Cons:

  • Need padding on the nylon straps

Dual Penetration kit conclusion

This is a fun way to give your sex partner a double penetration experience. I love that you can mix and match with different dildos and make your own unique setup.

Both the dildos are fairly thin which makes it good for beginners and you can upgrade to a thicker dildo once you feel comfortable with it.

I recommend the Dual Penetration kit if you want a double dildo strap on to pleasure your partner.

#6 King Cock 10-inch – hollow strap on dildo

The King Cock is a hollow 10-inch strap on dildo with extra shoulder straps to hold its massive size in place.

Simply put on the harness loosely and put your cock inside the hole in the dildo and tighten the harness so it sits firm against your body.

There is a Velcro strap around the base of the dildo that pulls it upwards, this is needed because of its size and weight.

Pros:

  • Massive 10-inch dildo
  • Extra support to hold it in place
  • Comfortable harness
  • Shoulder straps

Cons:

  • PVC dildo, silicone would be better

King Cock 10-inch conclusion

This is not for everybody and it will take some time to be able to take this 10-inch beast (and a whole lot of lubrication).

Take a look at the picture above and see how big it is compared to a standard can of soda, make sure your partner sees the image before you buy it. It’s absolutely massive and feels way bigger when you have the dildo in your hands.

I recommend the King Cock 10-inch hollow strap on dildo if your partner want to be filled to the max.

FAQ

A: It’s very straight forward to a strap on dildo, but it all depends on the product type. But for the most part just:

  1. Mount the dildo in the harness
  2. Loosen the straps
  3. Put the harness on
  4. Tighten the straps so the dildo sits firm against your body.
  5. Lube up the dildo and you’re ready to go.
  6. Remember to clean both the harness and the dildo afterwards.

A: No, you have to make sure that the dildo you want to use isn’t too thick and it has the standard harness/suction cup mount. The girth of the dildo should be smaller than the diameter of the o-ring on your harness.

A: A hanging dildo can be a sign of two different problems. 1) the harness isn’t adjusted correct, try to tighten it more. 2) The dildo you use might be too heavy for the harness you have. You can get harnesses with extra support for large dildos, the King Cock 10 inch on the list above is a great example of that.

A: No, not that there is anything wrong with being gay, but being pegging can be enjoyed by anyone. In fact, most men have that fantasy but very few men talk about it, which is a shame.

A: Yep, that’s not a problem, just make sure you get one that has room for your penis just like the Zoro strap-on on the list. You can also get a double penetration cock ring that works in a similar way, but it just sits around you cock instead of in a harness.

A: This can also be a good option, but it’s certainly not for everyone. I’ve written an article about strapless strap ons if you want to learn more about them.

Final thought on strap on dildos

A strap on dildo can really spice things up during sex and it can be healthy to change roles from giver to receiver sometimes.

It’s also a favorite among lesbians for a lot of obvious reasons.

If you’re new to sex toys then go for one of the beginner kits that offer a lot for a small price. Play around with it and give it a good try, I’m pretty sure you’re going to love it and come back for more.

Sex toys is a bit of a rabbit hole (a fun rabbit hole), the more toys you have the more you want.

I recommend the All American Whopper 6.5 inch strap on dildo for you if you’re looking for a great all-round product at a good price.